Seeking Fatherhood

  • Treehouse: Coda

    October 29, 2025

    With the oldest away at college, it has been time for some clearing out. The immediate priority was the teen’s room, about which the less said the better. A shocking amount of material pulled out of every nook and cranny and sent on its way. Her section of the bathroom, too. I had a feeling…

  • Launched

    August 31, 2025

    The nest is half-empty, and I’m figuring out how in the world I feel about it.

  • Pre-College Summer Crazy

    July 15, 2025

    Coming to terms with the big changes ahead.

  • Night Math

    May 13, 2025

    Awake, because my mind won’t stop. This night I kind of enjoy the ride.

  • Redlands, Here She Comes

    April 9, 2025

    Somehow the college application process changed my daughter, charmed her really.

  • Prom Season

    March 19, 2025

    Prom dress shopping got me thinking about 1981.

  • Dreaming Up Spring Break

    January 17, 2025

    Scheming and planning and trying to plan just the right family trip.

  • Holidays 2024

    December 6, 2024

    Happy and Merry to all. Our yearly letter, celebrating big changes.

  • ‘Tis the (College Application) Season

    November 21, 2024

    Wrapping my head around the application season. One: It’s not about me!

  • Memory and Meaning

    October 11, 2024

    If I don’t remember a book I read and loved, does it “count”?

  • Monkey Mind

    September 12, 2024

    Could I learn to be more like the dog?

  • Returns

    August 18, 2024

    The kids, even in their terrible teens, so strongly want to revisit places that were “ours.”

  • Home, O Home

    May 29, 2024

    Finding one’s place is an ongoing job.

  • Passover

    April 26, 2024

    Loving the annual hopeful ode to Spring, renewal, and freedom from oppression.

  • I Know Some Things

    February 18, 2024

    Why do we pay taxes? What’s interest? Do you really need insurance to drive a car?

  • Happy Holidays 2023

    December 13, 2023

    Wishing you wonderful holidays and the very best in 2024!

  • On Becoming My Parents

    December 2, 2023

    I’m thankful that life is long enough we can make a few 180 degree turns.

  • Love Parade

    November 25, 2023

    Trying to take it all in as I hit what I hope will be the “fourth quarter.”