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Sick Day

Posted on May 18, 2013 by David
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Today was the biggest event of the year at our daughter’s kindergarten. Spring Carnival! We’ve heard and talked about little else for weeks, selling raffle tickets, signing up for face painting duty, picking out the perfect outfit. What a surprise … Continue reading →

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Once More Into the Breach, Dear Friends

Posted on April 3, 2013 by David
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I never imagined how often day-to-day parenting would feel like the battle scene that opens Saving Private Ryan. I thought we’d won ours, getting both kids back from the beach to our motel room. 15 minutes of crying by our … Continue reading →

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The Joy of Water

Posted on February 26, 2013 by David
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One of the great joys of growing up in the Southwest was swimming. There were quite a few pools in our middle-class neighborhood and we were lucky to have one. Most summers I was in the water nearly every day. There … Continue reading →

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Loving “Outdoor World” and Other Fake Places

Posted on February 2, 2013 by David
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I’ve driven by the Bass Pro Shops Outdoor World megastore on the way to the Sierras several times, but only last week did I stop. Wow! Now I’ll never not stop. I didn’t realize it’s not really a sporting goods … Continue reading →

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Essay on Camp

Posted on January 19, 2013 by David
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No, this isn’t about Susan Sontag. It’s about how the kids change so gradually, even glacially, and suddenly something blindsides me and everything feels like it’s happening so fast. Today I was working on my spreadsheet for summer camps (more … Continue reading →

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“I decided I love you”

Posted on December 15, 2012 by David
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Our daughter was acting funny when we got home yesterday. Usually when she’s happy it’s a jump-around, slam dance kind of happy. Silly, rolling around. Her quiet moods have tended to be project concentration (art), or pouting, musing about the … Continue reading →

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Fast, Fastly Forward

Posted on November 8, 2012 by David
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Halloween came and went, in a pumpkin-pulpy, sugary blur. The kids seemed stunned that we’d just knock on neighbors’ doors, asking for sweets. I guess it is strange. But so much of their new life mush seem strange to them! … Continue reading →

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Unappetizing Choices

Posted on October 13, 2012 by David
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I knew there was no winning this one: flu shot was not going to be popular. The sooner I told her what we were doing Saturday morning, the more the anxiety and upset could build. But the longer I waited, … Continue reading →

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In Praise of Doing Not So Much

Posted on October 12, 2012 by David
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I took a walk with a friend and fellow business owner this week. We encourage each other to be entrepreneurial, we have projects to discuss. You could say we had a good alibi. But the truth is, I needed a … Continue reading →

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These Clothes Don’t Fit

Posted on September 30, 2012 by David
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It’s a trivial problem that one could only have in an affluent society. At different times I’ve found myself staring at all the clean clothes in my closet thinking, there’s nothing to wear! Or packing for a trip, I get … Continue reading →

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